āHow many times do you need to get hurt for you to realize itās time to let go.ā Now, although these words ring very true for me at the moment, I want to flip this quote and say: ā When is it time for people to start realizing and taking accountability for their actions?ā Why [ā¦]
Letting go
Petal of Desireš 
One does what one is best at! Some are good at hurting others, some are even better in prudently letting it go.
The earlier “the person” realises how others have been hurt, the better for him only. š
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Yeahhh, thankyou š, that’s the truth
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Wonderful thoughts yrr! Just fabš¤ā
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Catching up on what I have missed, I always feel better after reading your articles
Thank you
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Thankyou but this post is originally posted by unknowngirl, i just shared her words here. Check out het blogs too she is a profound writeršš
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Thank you very much
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Youāre better than me. I never let anything go anymore. I keep thinking Iām healed from my troubles, but they drag me down. Always. I think it boils down to blogging for me. Writing used to be therapeutic for me until I started writing in public. Now itās become a circus. My mental health is slipping again. Iām very much an experiential person. Since Iāve sequestered myself in front of the screen, nothing good has happened to me. I had to just let go of someone once. It wasnāt as dramatic as your experience. She just stopped. She had made plans in advance to stay with friends. She literally had no explanation. Can you imagine what that does to a mind? I think I would have rather thrashed it out! None of this is good. Hopefully you can fare better than me. I donāt mess with peopleās psyches, anyway. Sometimes I feel unstable. During the work day I canāt shut off my mind. Iām constantly searching for companionship, knowing that because Iām obsessed, I donāt stand a ratās ass of a chance of impressing anyone, with my entry level retail job. No skills. No future. Just stupid dreams of traveling, seeing places and people. Learning a new person. And hears the clincher, the last person I had a crush on already had a dozen lovers. What in the world is that? Maybe Iām an idiot. But I canāt take more of this complicated mess. All my promising dates have failed. Iāve given up on dating altogether. Only the good ones failed. Online dating is not my style, I guess. Waiting in line for a lover is also not an interest. The woman I married gave me no reason or argument. When I asked her if we could try again, she said, āNo.ā I paced the floor of my apartment for days, because I couldnāt sleep. I couldnāt. When my daughter stayed, we shared the sofa bed because I didnāt want to be alone. I couldnāt sleep in my own bed. I still only sleep on āmy side.ā The other side is untouched. Makes it easier to make the bed though. Itās part of my culture. I know itās completely crazy and wrong. Maybe I canāt get better because Iām heart sick, mentally ungrounded. Until the last two weeks, Iāve been making tremendous progress. Then I realized what was going on. I felt as if Iād been cheated on. I hate that most of all. Tonight, I added more pieces, Bob, Tre. Twenty years! Amazing! Thatās how long my marriage lasted. Anyway. Iām mad at myself for being such an idiot. I know I wasnāt fair to her. She doesnāt know anything me, even though Iāve been telling her exactly that for the past six years. Iām not into polygamy. My failed dates are a mystery to me. But reading this, even though I donāt act crazy around people, they can probably sense it. Sorry for the long confusing note. Feel free to delete it. Iām not proud.
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I actually liked it very much.
Can you do one thing,
Just count the number of times you’ve written “I” in your whole post, just do that, and you will realise, that life looks empty when we talk about only one person i.e me,
Now it’s time you start looking in the eyes of every person every living creature and thank God every second that you and everyone else is alive and breathing, nothing going to matter. In the end, everything nullifies itself, so calm down, you are such a gem of a person, and we all are a bit like you.
Feel free to write out your words emotions. I m always here to listen to any chaos, or as you said “idiotic” things.
Much love and peace š
Have a lovely day ahead.š¤
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āI,ā thanks. This triggered a massive venting spree. Sorry. I was just thinking of the twisted life of my last crush and went on a rant.
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You didnāt deserve that. Iām falling back into depression. Nothing is going right. āIā is a bad sign. I donāt know whatās wrong or what Iām doing or saying. Itās best that I donāt talk. Because I canāt judge whether or not Iām hurting anyone. Iāve been realizing that my dad, who is living with me, is worse than I am. Heās a loving person, but itās like he has something missing. I donāt know if I can explain it. He doesnāt seem to be able to know how to apologize for anything. Although heās compassionate, he doesnāt really know how to fully express it. Mom, she was full of emotion. But sheās gone. Iām a bundle of emotions that fly in every direction. But I depend on physical cues to know how Iām affecting people. I havenāt felt sick like this in months. My mind is completely out of control. Writing as a sole means of communication is the absolute worst thing that I can possibly do. You sound enough like her. I was having trouble last week and felt she might or might not be having something to do with it. So this was when I was at work. So I used my thoughts to wrap pure white light around her. I figured it would heal her. At the very least, it would be a shield for me. Either way, I thought it was beneficial. I get paranoid like that when things just keep going wrong. I, I, I. Iāve been living alone for a long time, and with depression. My world is so constrained. Itās impossible to break out of it.
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Hey! Look i have been through this phase, even worse than yours, and i came out of it, trust me, nothing is permanent, depression is a state not who we actually are.
Not going to give you any suggestions cause God is already making a new plan for you, just keep moving, and don’t try to fix anyone, just fix one person and that’s you. Everything is going to be super awesome, trust the process aand the one who is carrying out the whole process.
You are a warrior, and world needs warriors like you. š¤š
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Really such a nice bundle of thoughts yrr! Your sayings always seem such an inspiration to all of the readers here! Keep sharing your such kind hearted thoughts šš¤ā
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I have spent endless hours of effort and frustration this week trying to replace the contents of my stolen wallet! My feelings toward the 4 thieves are not exactly charitable! But I have more important things to focus on than resentment! Thank you for your interesting treatment of this topic. š
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Hey!! Dear Cheryl, glad you liked it. š¤š
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Itās letting go of the ego thatās the problem. An acknowledgment that you are wrong and being humble about that wrong doing means letting a part of yourself die. People hate that. You did the right thing by approaching them softly. People wonāt accept rocks hurled at them. Often the seed thatās planted is rejected at first. Often it takes a while to sink in and the other party comes round. But if they still wonāt listen sometimes itās up to us to let go of the relationship altogether. I like the thoughts shared here. Thank you š
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Pleasure is always mine,š
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